angry90slesbian:

THIS IS MY FAVORITE TWITTER INTERACTION OF ALL TIME

omg, two of my favourite people <3 

angry90slesbian:

THIS IS MY FAVORITE TWITTER INTERACTION OF ALL TIME

omg, two of my favourite people <3 

marginalising:

NOT EVERYTHING IS ABOUT A GOD DAMN RELATIONSHIP AND LOSING WEIGHT AND BEING BEAUTIFUL FOR GODS SAKE GO OUTSIDE AND ROB A STORE AND FEEL ALIVE AS YOU RUN AWAY FROM SECURITY

Reblogged from

whoobin:

I am so over people thinking that Leis look like this: 

image

A lei takes hard time and vigorous work. We (Hawaiians) wake up at the crack of dawn to gather whats needed to make the lei that we want. It can take hours or days to make the leis and Hawaiian’s make leis with only good intentions and love because they believe that if you make a lei with malicious intent it will come out into the lei. There is many different ways to make leis and we also make leis from shells and feathers. It isn’t only Hawai’i that makes leis but throughout Polynesia fellow Polynesians make leis in their own style. 

To call the above image a lei is disrespectful to my culture and I want that shit to stop. That isn’t a lei, the images in the photoset are leis. 

These are so beautiful

Reblogged from ~Whimpers in the Dark~

hexgoddess:

see-reverse-side:

hexgoddess:

What? Bisexual? She can’t be bisexual, you’re only bisexual if you’re actively fucking two people of two differing genders at the same exact time. The moment you stop fucking them you’re suddenly not bi anymore. It’s science.

I suppose that means we bi people exist in quantum superposition until someone observes us having sex.

Schrodinger’s Sexuality

rocprinceray:

White People: - “Black people are always pulling the race card!”

I remember hearing this story a couple weeks ago. How fucking disgusting.

rocprinceray:

White People: - “Black people are always pulling the race card!”

I remember hearing this story a couple weeks ago. How fucking disgusting.

Look around your college classroom, spot the virgins.

See, this seems like a game until you skip over the girl with a short skirt and hair in front of her eyes because you heard last summer that she slept with like nineteen guys. You can’t see her hands, but they’re under the table, pulling a rosary through her fingers as she tries to wash the sin off her. She’s only ever kissed three people in her whole life and they’re all girls. She turned down the wrong guy and he told everyone she’s “a whore.” The label “slut” stuck to the bottom of her shoe and swallowed her up.

But that quiet girl who is always reading probably never touched someone else’s penis, you figure, because you don’t know that she goes home and strips down and pulls on tight black leather, you don’t know she’s got a set of whips that could make any set of knees quiver, you don’t know because she’s proud of what she does but she’s not stupid enough to let anyone know about it. She’s sexy, just not here, not where people judge.

See, the truth is: you have no idea who has lost their virginity, because it doesn’t change you. It doesn’t give you some kind of glow or superpower or stamp on your forehead. You know the feeling of waking up on your birthday and thinking “I don’t feel any older whatsoever”? That’s what maybe they’re all so afraid of you finding out: sex doesn’t change you. Sex doesn’t make you an animal, sex doesn’t suddenly make your relationship a million times more stable or intimate or romantic - it can’t fix what’s broken, although it can make the pain go away for a bit. Sex doesn’t really occur with eighty tea lights and a thick white rug. Sex is ugly and loud and frequently awkward, sex is excellent and breathtaking and when you wake up the next morning, you’re the exact same person. There’s not some magical connection with the person in bed beside you. Believe it or not, pregnancy isn’t some kind of punishment - but practice safe sex, get tested, don’t spread your germs around. They want to tell you, “Sex can ruin you” and I’ve heard that a lot as a little girl, that some boy would join me under my sheets and then dump me four days after, used, unhappy.

But I figured out that I’m not a fucking toy. Letting someone have sex with me is not letting them “use” me, because I’m not an object. My father said the issue lay in the fact “Men are insecure and need to know that they’re the best you ever had,” but I think that’s a steaming crock of absolute-wrong and if I didn’t tell the people I’m with how many others I’d slept beside, there would be literally no way for them to know my number, because I don’t rust, I don’t wear out, I don’t get bruised. I’m not a wilting fruit, I don’t go rotten.

But here’s the thing: some people connect sex and emotion. I don’t personally because I am probably secretly an ice storm in disguise, but I still respect my partner’s desires. If they’re the type to want love and sex to coincide, I let them. I don’t make fun, I don’t pull one-night-stands or friends-with-benefits, because it’s not their “reputation” I’m afraid for: it’s their heart I’m defending.

Here’s the thing: Instead of worrying about people’s “purity” and how it defines them as a person, worry instead about how you can protect other people’s emotions.

Because here’s the thing: look around your room and spot the virgins. Look harder. You can’t tell. Sex doesn’t alter people, it doesn’t make them act in a certain way nor dress in a certain manner. Sex and personality have nothing to do with each other. There’s a reason that virginity doesn’t show on someone’s face: because having sex doesn’t cause you to change.

"I lost my virginity to a boy I didn’t even love…" /// r.i.d (via inkskinned)
getoveryourselflady:

Every time a girl says a guy stereotypes, shames or sexually objectifies them, there is a girl returning the favor by doing it to a guy. So it goes both ways.

getoveryourselflady:

Every time a girl says a guy stereotypes, shames or sexually objectifies them, there is a girl returning the favor by doing it to a guy. So it goes both ways.

polarbear-fishbiscuits:

wannabefashionjournalist:

al-the-stuff-i-like:

To think that some people don’t see a problem with society is disturbing

it’s not just disturbing, it’s fucking scary. 

Y’all “rape culture doesn’t exist” preachers can fuck RIGHT off

This is disgusting.

However, don’t call this “rape culture.” Terms like that take the severity of the crime off the individual by placing it onto a group of people. Using the term “rape culture” makes it sound more acceptable, as if rape is to be anticipated, as if it’s normal because there’s a society dedicated to it. Rape is wrong, and its consequences should be placed on the individual full-force.

nazchow said: That’s actually not the definition of feminism. I understand if you don’t want to stand with what the feminist movement has become, but that just means that you’ve been swayed by how the media portrays “feminism”.


(I know I sent you an ask pertaining to this comment, but I have more to say, and think discussion is great for the public to see.)

I have had a lot of people tell me that’s not the definition, so what is it? If men and women are equals, why is the root word “feminine?” When I look it up the definition it classes it as activism and social justice for women’s rights. So it is for women - like I said. Also, I don’t know what media you are referring to, or if you’re talking about peoples’ opinions, because I don’t indulge in a lot of TV or movies.

 I believe the reason that feminism has become so inane and radical, is because there is nothing left to be said. It’s a pissing match at this point. Men and women have equal rights in North America. I think feminism would be beneficial for various parts of the globe, but not here.

I realize there are stereotypes that still exist surrounding women, but it goes the same for men. That’s something we need to work on as a society, but I don’t think feminism can achieve that.

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